Hella Chisme Podcast

Back in My Bag: Life, Burnout, and Fiji Vibes

Hella Chisme Podcast Episode 84

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Welcome Back! 

I know it has been a minute but we are back with another episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast. After a rejuvenating break from the podcast world, I've returned with renewed energy and a crystal-clear vision for show. This comeback episode offers an intimate look into why stepping away was necessary and how that space transformed both me and the future of this show.

My journey through burnout taught me valuable lessons about setting boundaries and honoring my own needs. Through therapy and deep self-reflection, I confronted some uncomfortable truths: my fear of podcasting solo, my struggles with impostor syndrome, and how vulnerability isn't weakness but the cornerstone of authentic connection. These revelations have shaped my decision to continue the podcast independently and on a new twice-monthly schedule—giving me room to breathe while pursuing other creative endeavors.

Join me! I'm excited about the new direction and can't wait to share it with you. What helps you reset when life gets overwhelming? I'd love to hear your thoughts!

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Speaker 1:

So, and welcome back to another episode of the hella cheese, my podcast. I'm, I'm, I'm still here here here. Oh, my gosh, I'm so excited to be back. Welcome back to another episode of the Hello she's my Podcast. My name is Dana and I'm your host.

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Omg, it has been some time, and I'm sure you all are asking yourselves where you been, and I'm asking myself that same question. First things first. I'm using a completely different setup, so I actually have this camera right in front of me. I've been having some technology issues, for whatever reason, and then, after vacation, right when I was planning to come back and start recording again, everything decided to turn its back on me. Yep, that's right, which is usually how things happen, right? So I got back from vacation. I was preparing to get everything organized, set up, and then I got home and my data cord no longer wanted to send my data to my display and I may be speaking another language to anybody who's listening to this but essentially my Mac Mini would not display on my computer display and so that happened. So that happened. Then, on top of that, I sat down to record and my display has a webcam already in it. So then I realized I can't no longer use my webcam because of that cord is no longer working. And now I'm using this camera, which is a good thing. I'm not mad about it, because actually I've been looking for a reason to use this camera and I hadn't had one in a while, because when I did try to use it for the first time, it didn't work, or it not that it didn't work, it wasn't. It was that the, the, the videos. I could not figure out how to convert them. So all that to say. There's a camera sitting right in front of me, so that's where I'm connecting with you, right here. But if you see me looking over, it's because I'm trying to make sure I'm looking good in the camera. It's because I'm trying to make sure I'm looking good in the camera and that's for those who are watching the video, but for those who are listening, that's the backstory. That's what's been going on.

Speaker 1:

But anyway, welcome back. I'm so excited to be back. Lots to talk about today. It's going to be a full-on life update story on what I've been doing, what's going on. We'll talk a little about what's to come, but you know, it's me, it's just me now. I'm very excited and scared at the same time.

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But I'm excited to have gotten back to the place, to be able to continue to record the show and to move forward. I have a lot of ideas, a lot of plans, a lot of things that I want to do, so I'm excited to see where this goes. First things first, the show will no longer come out weekly. We'll come out twice a month, and that's just a better schedule and also will give me time to work on other projects that I want to work on and that I am working on, to give me the time to do that, to be able to live my life. I have a job, so that too, finishing up some things at school and just to not feel like I'm burnt out.

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Which leads me into my next portion of this, which is talking about the time away that I had and to do some deep dive into being burnt out, being tired, knowing that I have been overworked, knowing that I have been in school working on this show, working on other things that I knew I wanted to do, but it just was a lot and I knew that in order for me to be able to come back and to be able to continue this show, I needed to take that time away. So it was very important that I did that. So I was resting, I was decompressing, I continue to go to therapy, as I have been doing. I think I talked a little bit about it when, even through the episodes I was doing with Stephanie, I talked about going to therapy and my therapist has been getting me together, talking about, like, vulnerability, talking about, like all the number of things that I love to put on my plate, talking about how I need to make plans for myself, plans for myself.

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I even went and did a appointment with my astrologist, who essentially does a lot of readings based on my birth chart and like my house, which is all of the signs and the you know, your moon in cancer or Virgo, et cetera. That's the easiest way for me to explain it to you if you don't know what that is and what it all boils down to is that I'm in a place to where I can build all the things that I want to do in the way that I want them. I just have to take the time to dream about it, think about it and map it out and to lay it all out so that it can come into fruition in the way that I want it to do it, and so that's what I've been doing, and so that's what I've been doing. And understanding and knowing that I was burnt out, I really wanted to take the time to get a lot of rest and I wanted to stay quiet.

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Although I was on social media, I wasn't really on social media, which is why I wasn't posting a lot on the Hello Cheese Mage account. You would see things come up and post here and there, but it was really important to me to make sure that I took the time and was able to decompress and rest and to move forward as best as I could. So I did that. I took a breath. I didn't schedule any recordings. I didn't even barely pay attention to numbers from the show, nothing. I needed to really just put my hands up and say we're going to let this do what it do, and I did that, um.

Speaker 1:

So now that we are back and I am able to, uh, know exactly what I want to do, know what we're doing, know where it's going which is why part of the decision to move the show to two times a month rather than weekly um, because I know there's other things that I want to do and I know that I want to take the Hell Achieves Me branding into something that's completely different or not different, but bigger than what it is. And planning on doing that meant that I needed to take the time to think and dream and figure it out, and that's what I've done, and I'm excited to see where everything ends up and how everything continues to unfold. And then just thinking about, you know, not having any deadlines, not having to do much of anything, that was just great. And then the semester had ended, so I didn't have to do any schoolwork, and then I went on a great trip, which we're also going to talk about as well, so I just had some good time away and hopefully you can see it I look refreshed. I'm not as tired as I was. I'm not exhausted, you know, we still drinking our water, so things have been fantastic. But moving on, so just thinking about vulnerability and talking about therapy, you know, I'm interested to just know.

Speaker 1:

How many of y'all didn't think this show was coming back Me neither girl, because I really just I had to sit with myself and really come to terms with. I suffer from imposter syndrome. I suffer from the fear of doing things alone, and one thing I did not want to do was to do this show by myself, which is why it was so easy for me when I started the show. It was easy to do it with my friend because I had somebody else to do it with me, and for many, many years I have wanted to do podcasting and the only reason that stopped me is because I didn't want to do it by myself. But the reality I had to come to when taking the time away was that I needed to be vulnerable and let people see me for me and not try and hide behind another person doing the show with me, in the show with me. So those were the conversations I had to have with myself and those were some of the things I had to come to terms with.

Speaker 1:

And now that we're here, I also have to recognize the power now that I have to do whatever I want with this show and move it in the direction whatever direction I want it to go in. And that's kind of exciting to me because it's so hard having to try and move something with somebody else. Try and move something with somebody else, especially if they may not have the same vision that you have, and not to say that you know anything on my, my past co-hosts, but the reality is we both have two different lives that we're leading and we both had two different directions we wanted to go in and I think it's going to be much easier to move this along and to move this where I wanted to go, because it's just me on the show and I had to come to terms with that, and I also had to just get clear that I was genuinely scared to just do this shit by myself, and I think going to therapy and having different conversations that I had helped me come to terms with that, because if you know anything about leos, being vulnerable and showing the side to, where we may be fearful of something is not necessarily something that we're strong at doing, because to us it's like showing a sign of weakness and I'm not the one to be running around here trying to be, you know, looking like somebody who's weak. So after going to therapy and now having this conversation, or having these conversations, I was able to just realize vulnerability is not about weakness, right, it's about letting people see you for who you are, and that is what I'm leaning into and I also feel like that's the honest part of who I am communication and how much I love communication and how honest I am about things. I had to be honest here first and with myself, in order to be able to move things forward, and so now I don't feel no type of way about it and I'm happy about that and I love that.

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For me, the other thing was finishing school. If you know anything about me and school and how I've talked about school, you know that school has never been a thing that I've loved or just like thoroughly enjoyed. But the last couple of years that I have been in school, the last couple of years that I have been in school, I have been taking the time to enjoy it and, um, trying to create what path I'm going down. You know the reason I decided to start studying communications because I did want to start taking podcasting, writing and creating and creating more seriously. And then the reason that I had did human resource management was because I wanted to have a career path in the professional world too. So I've done both of those right, but I also had to come to terms with that right now, where we are in the world.

Speaker 1:

I don't think a bachelor's degree is going to be happening right now. Walk away with this AA and maybe go do another certification program at one of my Ivy League favorites, because everybody's doing certification programs now and my job can just pay for it. I just I don't. I don't want to take out any school loans to try and pay for, especially with how Donald Trump wants us to finish paying for these school loans, or I just I'm not interested and I had to come to terms with that too. I want, I do want my, my degrees, my certifications they all matter and I do want them.

Speaker 1:

But I think where the job market and the world is going when it comes to professional workplaces everywhere is not making you have a degree in order to get the job that you want today, in order to get the job that you want today. I know that even in the place that I work, that's not all that you need to have in order to be qualified for the job anymore, and that's great, right. I still have quite a few professional certifications, I have lots of experience, but I'm not in the space to go sit in class four days and days at a time where I am going to be spending a ton of money on an education, and that's kind of where I'm ending up at right now and that's mostly because of the climate we're in right now. So and that might change, we'll see but right now that doing things for you and some of these things are important for you and for your mental health, and I had to really do a deep dive into all of that, and that's some of the places that I end up I have always wanted to go to, like Cornell, morehouse, yale, and all of them have programs that I can go to cert programs with. Right now. They all have global learning where you can do it all online and it's just like a couple of thousand dollars and I'm like, if I can do that, match that with my little associate's degree and my HRBP certification HR management and get one more.

Speaker 1:

What else do I need? And I say you know people should do more. What's the word? The word I'm thinking of is unconventional learning that you want to learn, rather than spending a bunch of money on schools when we're in a different climate. Maybe that'll make more sense for you, but as of right now, it's not looking like that's the thing to do.

Speaker 1:

So, wrapping up the conversation about vulnerability, I'll just say this I knew that if I wanted to keep moving this forward, then I needed to get clear on what we're doing, where we're going and how to continue to target the audience that I want to target, and I think, with what I have planned for the show for the Hello Cheesemade brand, I think I will be able to do exactly what it is that I want to do. So, with all of that, again, I'm happy to be back. Thank you for listening and supporting the show and thank you for coming back to see what I had to say. Like I said, I have some things planned. It's going to be a fun ride moving forward, so hopefully the couple of people that listen and watch y'all stick around and we're going to have a good time. I'm going to take a small break and then we'll be right back and I'm back All right. So today's episode is going to be, like I said, a little life update.

Speaker 1:

So since we last talked, I've been chilling, basically, but the world has clearly still been going. Beyonce done ended her tour. She was out there on horses and that Cadillac converter, or that red Cadillac, damn near gave out on her when she was on her tour in Houston. The airplane's still acting crazy. It's all kind of shit going on, but summertime is still in full effect. The girlies are still outside. I celebrated my 35th birthday, um, and you know things have just been going on. Oh, and then the ditty trial wrapped up while we were on break, um, and we covered some stuff on that. What else I mean? Donald Trump is still acting a fool. Politics are still a mess. Things are just happening.

Speaker 1:

But you know, to say the least, I just because we were gone did not mean that I wasn't paying attention on the things in the world. But one thing that I do want to talk about that I really, really, really enjoyed is me and my husband took ourselves to Fiji, to Fiji, and a lot of people asked us how we decided on going to Fiji and really what it was was we were looking at our. So we have a timeshare which I think I've shared before, and three years ago when we had our honeymoon, or four years ago when we had our honeymoon, we had looked through the different locations that we can go to, and when we went on our honeymoon we went to Zia Wataneho and during that time we also had saw that we have property in Fiji. I saw that we have property in Fiji. So now fast forward to four years later. We said that, okay, our big summer trip this year would be Fiji, since I had just celebrated my one year anniversary at my job and you know, the year before that I was not working and summer was in a deep depression and if you have been listening to the show, you know I shared what, what of a what of a dark space I was in at the time, but now clearly not in that and we celebrate and I'm turning 35 this year. So we said, ok, let's go try somewhere different, let's go to Fiji.

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So in doing research on it and finding a place to stay, the different islands, the different things you could do, we did stay at our timeshare, but we also stayed at two other different places when flying in. Nadi is one of the main islands that you can fly into, as well as there's Suva, which is further down south from Nadi, but it's like a three hour drive from there. There's also a bunch of other different islands and if you also watch Love Island, you know Love Island is famed as Fiji, which is on an island that is about an hour and 45 minutes from Nadi, not the little thumbs up sign, which is an hour and 45 minutes from Nadi, on a backside of an island. I think it's called Mawalu, but you can't even see it because the island is so small on the map. But we did get to go around to different islands and one of the persons who gave us a cruise on the trip told us where it was.

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But anyway, fiji is located five hours from Hawaii, which is where we're from, which is, you know, living in california, is five hours from us. So the flight from lax or sfo is 10 hours and there's only four different locations that do direct flights to fiji. So it it's Honolulu, it's LAX, sfo, dallas, wait, lax, sfo, dallas, honolulu. So only those locations do direct flights to Fiji. So we had to drive down to LAX, which is only. I think it only took us an hour and 30 minutes from San Diego to LAX and then we were boarded a flight there to SFO. Now we flew Fiji Airways, and Fiji Airways is this gorgeous international airline. I mean, the plane was beautiful, the plane coming back was better than the plane going, but it was nice and we'll get into that. But since Fiji Airways has partnered with a bunch of other international airlines, like American Airline, british Airways and then I think it's one more From LAX to SFO, we had to fly American so that we can catch our connecting flight from SFO to Nadi. So if you know anything about American Airlines although that is one of my favorites, they be on some bullshit.

Speaker 1:

So we get to LAX and we check in Immediately. When we check in, we're checking in our bags, getting everything situated, going up to the American Airlines desk and we're trying to check in our bags. So I give the lady my suitcase, she sets it on the wear belt and she tells my husband that his bag is overweight. I said no, it's not, because we've already prepaid for baggage through Fiji Airways. And not only have we paid for baggage, we can have our bags weigh up to 60 pounds through Fiji Airways and she was like, oh OK, well, you guys have to go to the specialty desk Great. So went over to the other desk, explained to her what was going on and she tried to give me the whole thing. I said what I'm going to need you to do is look up what Fiji Airways baggage is, because clearly y'all are not in alignment on what Fiji Airways does and is clearly different from what y'all do on American Airlines, which I already know because I fly domestically on American Airlines all the time and your bag can be no more than 50 pounds, which fine, understood. But my thing was, I've already paid for it, I'm not giving you an additional $100. And if y'all not communicating, that's not my problem. So we were able to get that figured out, get that fixed.

Speaker 1:

We go to an LAX airport. We sat there for about two hours because we have to catch another shuttle from one part of the gates to another part of the gate, which I never knew because I've had never actually been to LAX. I've flown into Anaheim and then other parts of family has flown it to Ontario, so I've never had to go there. So we fly out the LAX tarmac and I knew when they had went on this whole roundabout way to get to where we were supposed to be taking off at that something was going on. So they come on the intercom and they say SFO has some congestion in the airway. So we are actually been delayed and we won't be taking off until about 9.15. Mind you, our flight from SFO to Nandi is supposed to be boarding an hour from then and it already takes about an hour or so to get from LAX to San Francisco, not to mention until they let us off the plane, we get to the gate, etc. So we're delayed.

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So we finally take off, we get to SFM. We have 10 minutes to get from one side of the airport to the next side of the airport. So me and Paris are footing it across the airport and I mean thankfully it wasn't busy because it was so late at night. And I mean thankfully it wasn't busy because it was so late at night. But I mean when I tell you my calves were so swole by the time we got to the gate. I was just tired and out of breath at that point. But thankfully we checked in, they took all of our information and we told them we have two bags that are coming off of a flight, that are coming off of a flight that was delayed from LAX, and they were like, okay, and the there was another guy that was there letting them know. Actually there's 11 other people who have bags and who are coming off that flight that are delayed as well and we need to make sure that it's on the flight. So I hear homegirl on the walkie and she's like we're about to close the doors and the girl's like no, not yet, you have two other people. And turns out they were waiting for us to get there, which was very nice.

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So we get on the airplane, we get settled in. The airplane is huge. It's probably the biggest airplane I've ever been on in my life. I mean, the engines are probably the size of a studio apartment, which I was just very taken aback and just thought how cool it was, because I had never flown that far internationally and have never been on such a large airplane like that. So it was pretty dope. So we get checked in. We are sitting pretty much in the front. We were in Economy Plus, so we had good seats, we had good leg space. Um, the plane is pretty much full. There's families all flying, uh, to go see, probably, other families. We learned that there's families that were celebrating their birthdays. Um, it was a full flight.

Speaker 1:

The first couple of hours of the flight they are serving you dinner, because what now I know? Is by the time we were leaving San Francisco, it was starting it starts to be dinner time in Nadi. So we were leaving here about 10 o'clock, almost 11 o'clock, so that is like 4, 4.33 o'clock Nadi time, but the next day. So you kind of lose a whole day when you travel to Fiji. So we were up in the air at this point. We're going, we're flying, we have some food, I'm in and out of sleep, paris is in and out of sleep and we make it to Nandi about 5.20 am the next day. We get there, we get all checked in. It's super busy.

Speaker 1:

We learn that a lot of the American flights come in at 5 am in the morning. It's probably easier, and so the airport is pretty much booming started from 5 am till late at night. We get there, we sit down because we're waiting for our luggage, only to realize our luggage is never to arrive. So I asked the lady, I said hey, we're looking for these two luggages. And she's like oh, all of the luggages from SFO are on the floor. And I said, well, not all of them, because I don't see mine and I don't see my husband's. And I showed her the two slips and she's like okay, well, if you've lost them, then you have to go do this survey. And points us in the direction to go do the survey and where we can go do that. So we do all of that. So we have to essentially file a baggage claim and we have to put in all the information, let them know where they want us to send, where they want them to send it, and all of that. So after that we're like it's time to go. It's 5 am At this point. We've been traveling for a whole day. I'm tired, I'm over it, I'm ready to get out of this airport. So we leave the airport.

Speaker 1:

I had previously booked some transportation, so they were there to pick us up and they took us to the hotel, and the first hotel we stayed at was the Double Tree. The Double Tree is on the Sonali Island and it was beautiful Sonali Island, and it was beautiful. We had to take a small commuter boat from one side of the island to the next side to actually get to the entrance of the hotel, and I mean it connects to the ocean so it just you can see all the trees, the sunset I mean the sunrise, and it was just gorgeous. I mean, I didn't even I've had bad experiences on boats, but when we got on that boat my immediate thought was just like but when we got on that boat, my immediate thought was just like not about that, it was just about how pretty it was. And we got over.

Speaker 1:

As soon as you get there, people are trying to take your luggage out of your hands because they're like we got you, we're about to take care of you, and you know, go ahead and get checked in and your luggage will be at your door when you get to your door. So we did that. We went there, we got checked in, breakfast was already started, so we had breakfast and then from there we went and checked in our room and we had pretty much like a bungalow and they had some standalone little bungalows. Then they had like regular, like hotel rooms and then they had more standalone bungalows. We were in a, a bungalow that was facing the water, um, which, if you follow me on Instagram, you saw that it was just right on the water and it was beautiful, and we stayed there for the first two days, which is the first two days that we were fighting to get our luggage back, which, to me, my only thing that I guess I'm going to, after you know, 10 days of being on vacation and just you know, a couple of days reflecting on all of it, my thing is just the lack of communication.

Speaker 1:

Right, I had submitted that baggage claim and I felt like I had to do all the work to figure out if our luggage was going to make it back. Figure out if our luggage was going to make it back. No one reached out, no one followed up. I was doing all of the work to make sure that our luggage was going to be on the next plane coming back to Nadi, to make sure that we would have our shit for the rest of the time that we were on vacation I mean back and forth with SFO Airport, back and forth with Fiji Airways, back and forth with American Airlines. It was a shit show. And then at the end, by the time we were checking out of the Doubletree, our luggages were actually sitting at the front desk right when we were getting ready to leave, right when we were getting ready to leave, which you know, we were like if we didn't go up here to say anything, would they have had said anything to us? And I mean it just it was annoying, but thankfully we did end up with our luggage.

Speaker 1:

So from there, after we left Sonali, we went and stayed in Donnaroo Island, which I mean complete night and day, from where we were staying to where we now are for the entirety of the rest of our trip are for the entirety of the rest of our trip. Donaru Island is clearly created for travelers and tourists. I mean, they have built this place up to be where the tourists come and go and stay. It's also close to Nandi town, which has a bunch of restaurants, shopping stores. It has the temple Um. It's close to pretty much everything, but also has been made into the spot for the tourists to go to, which is where we stayed at our timeshare. This too was a beautiful resort, but much larger and a lot more people, and we were checking on a Saturday and it was packed Like it was very, very packed Overall. You know, the Donnaroo Island was good.

Speaker 1:

I think in retrospect the food wasn't amazing. We had some good food at one restaurant that we went to, but it was kind of hit or miss, unfortunately. You know, when we went to Y-Lolo, we went and ate at the Sheraton and they had some really good seafood at the top of the hotel, but everything else was kind of like hit or miss, and I think it's because of all of everything they have to have imported. The fish was great, though any seafood that we did have and I think it's because of all of everything they have to have imported the fish was great, though Any seafood that we did have was fresh and you can tell that it was fresh and it was very, very clean tasting, so but everything else was kind of like hmm, all the beaches.

Speaker 1:

When we did the catamaran tour and went to visit um the sandbar beautiful we went to um. When we went on the sandbar, they cooked on the boat. That was probably the best food of the entire trip and also the first time in their whole trip that I had a little bus, because the other thing that I found out while being in fiji was that they don't have a surplus of tequila. But why would I expect that either? Right, it's an island. They probably they do drink a lot of rum. So, you know, I just I wanted tequila but they only had Jose Cuervo and I just could not get through drinking a bunch of Jose Cuervo. Okay, jose cuervo. Um, so, hands down.

Speaker 1:

Fiji was one for the week for the books. It was fantastic. Um, if you ever go, I think that staying on the different islands, visiting different parts of it, is the way to go. I think when we do go back, if we go by ourselves, we will stay in different places again. Hands down. I think our favorite spot to stay, I think for me, was the Sonali Island at Double Tree. I just enjoyed it.

Speaker 1:

Um, the Radisson was nice. That was next door to where we stayed at, where our time shared because we had to stay an extra day because our flight wasn't actually until Monday night. So it was cool. The Radisson was okay. I just felt like we were begging for service there and I don't know if it's the American in me that feels like we like better service, but I don't know. I got. I collect points there now. So if there's another radisson that I stay at, then I'll do that, but the radisson was okay.

Speaker 1:

Um, where else? I mean, I do think that Fiji is a gem and something that's going to be up and coming over the next couple of years. They're doing a lot of work on it. It's a lot of construction, there's a lot of land for sale, and there's a lot of land for sale. I think the only thing that I would complain about is just how long the travel is to get there. Other than that, fiji was 10 out of 10. I would highly recommend it. I would definitely suggest, if you need a place to go vacation, that is the place that I would recommend you going.

Speaker 1:

It was a good time and the people the Fijian people were so nice, very pleasant. They take care of you and somehow they remember each and every person. I don't know how they do that, because they knew if we had been there for a while. They knew if we had just checked in. They were very locked in on every single person that they encountered while, um, while they were there on their trip uh, a lot, almost as if they had never seen Black people before or gay people before. None of them said anything disrespectful or got disrespectful, but it just was like we were on display at a circus. But I'm also not surprised by any of that, but other than that, it was fantastic.

Speaker 1:

So if you're ever planning a trip to Fiji you know only suggestions that I would make make sure you do your best to find a straight flight. Um, if you can get one, I mean, I guess the red eye is fine, um, but as long as you don't have to transfer any planes, that's the best way. I would say that's the best way. I would say, you know, maybe do some research on restaurants before you go, because we didn't really do any restaurant research. Everything else is cool. I mean, nothing was super expensive at all. Literally, the Fijian dollar is you're paying half the price for everything over there. So I say, if you've been thinking about it, go do it, because it was definitely worth it. All right, um, I'm going to take one final break and then I'll be back to wrap up the show.

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